Episode insight

‘Valerian doesn’t force your body to sleep. It helps your body let go of the state it’s been in all day.”

“You can be highly capable during the day and still find that your body hasn’t fully switched off at night.”

“When your body can move into true rest, your thinking sharpens, your emotional steadiness returns, and leadership becomes cleaner.”

What You’ll Hear In This Episode

  • In this episode, we explore Valerian root as more than a traditional sleep herb and begin to understand what it’s actually doing in your body.
  • You’ll learn how valerian supports the nervous system, not by forcing sedation, but by helping your body transition out of a state of activation. We unpack why you can feel exhausted and still wired at night, and how this relates to your ability to truly rest.
  • We also explore the physiology behind sleep, including how valerian supports sleep onset and deeper, more restorative sleep, and why consistent use can create lasting changes in your nervous system baseline.
  • You’ll hear about the nuance of valerian, why it feels deeply calming for some and slightly stimulating for others, and what factors like preparation, dosage, and plant variation mean for how it works in your body.
  • We also bring this into a leadership context, looking at how sleep quality influences your clarity, emotional regulation, and decision-making, and why rest is not separate from how you lead.
  • Finally, I share how I personally work with valerian, including how I use it as a tea in the evening, what to expect from its distinctive taste, and how to find an approach that works for your body.

Full Transcript:

Valerian Root: More than a sleep herb

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Valerian’s often spoken about as a sleep herb, and she is an amazing sleep herb. But she also does so much more than that. Because what she offers your body isn’t simply sleep. It’s a way to let go, not collapse, and not sedation in the way we often think of it, but a very specific kind of softening where your nervous system unwinds without you losing clarity, function, or each. And this distinction matters, right? Especially if you’re someone who’s very good at staying switched on, if your mind’s used to holding complexity, solving problems, leading, thinking ahead. Now what’s often missing isn’t your ability to perform. It’s your body’s ability to come down from that state, to transition out of activation without your mind continuing to loop or your body holding tension long after your day’s ended. Now, Valerian meets you exactly in that space.

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She doesn’t force your system, she invites it. And over time, she begins to teach your body something it might have forgotten how to do on its own, how to release safely. So from a sleep perspective, research shows that valerian can help to improve how quickly you fall asleep and also your overall perception of sleep quality. And you may even notice that from a single dose of valerian, for some people, myself included, there’s a very tangible sedative effect. The first time you take it, you can feel your body start to soften. That gorgeous heaviness eases in, and sleep comes a little more easily. Where the research becomes interesting, though, is that while that immediate feat can absolutely be there, the more consistent and reliable improvements tend to come when valerian’s taken over a period of days or weeks. So we’re not just looking at a one night intervention, right? We’re looking at a cumulative effect where the nervous system begins to shift its baseline.

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There’s also some indication that valerian supports deeper stages of sleep. It’s often referred to as deep sleep or, or slow wave sleep. And that’s the phase that’s associated with physical restoration, cellular repair, and that feeling of actually waking up refreshed, rather than just technically having been asleep. So it’s not just about getting you to sleep, it’s about the quality of what’s happening once you’re there. And that consistency piece becomes important because valerian isn’t designed to override your system for a single night, even though it can help in the moment. She also works with your body over time, gradually restoring your ability to move into rest more naturally. It’s almost like your system starts to remember that pathway. Now Part of how she’s thought to do this is through her interaction with GABA pathways, and these are involved in calming neural activity.

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But unlike pharmaceutical sedatives that strongly force that pathway, Valerian’s action appears to be more modulating than overriding. And so what do I mean by modulating? Well, what I mean is that she’s not pushing your system in one direction, she’s helping to adjust and stabilise what’s already there. So if your nervous system’s running high, she helps to bring it down, but in a way that still allows your body to stay responsive rather than shutting it off completely. Completely. And that’s why, unlike many sleeping tablets, you don’t tend to get that heavy, foggy, hangover feeling the next day. Your brain hasn’t been pushed into an artificially suppressed state, it’s been supported into a more natural rhythm of activation and rest. And for someone whose mind’s used to staying very active, that distinction, well, it’s everything you’ll often feel, whether valerian is for you before you even take it. Not as a diagnosis, but as a quiet recognition.

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It tends to be the kind of nervous system that can carry a lot, right? The one people rely on. You’re the safe pair of hands, the one who holds it together, follows things through and doesn’t drop the ball. You’re the one who can hold focus, responsibility, complexity, often for long periods of time without it showing on the surface. But then the transition out of that state doesn’t seem to happen very cleanly. You might notice it at the end of the day, when you finally get into bed and your body’s tired, but your mind’s still moving, it’s still running conversations, replaying decisions, planning what’s coming next. Or it’s that moment where everything’s technically done but you don’t quite feel settled. You know, there’s still a subtle hum in your system, like your body hasn’t received the signal that it’s safe to switch off. Sometimes it shows up physically.

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A tightness in your stomach that doesn’t fully release, or a kind of low level bracing in your chest, even when nothing’s immediately wrong. And from the outside, none of this looks like a problem because you’re still functioning, you’re still leading, you’re still showing up at a very high level. But internally, your system hasn’t completed the cycle, it’s stayed just slightly activated. And over time, that becomes your baseline. And this is where valerian tends to meet you. Not because something’s wrong, but because your Body’s become very, very good at staying on and it just needs support remembering how to come back down. Now, one of the things I always like to say with valerian is that she’s not a one note herb. So far, I’ve been talking about Valeriana officinalis, which is the species that I most commonly use in practise.

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Now, for many people, there’s that immediate sense of softening the body, drops the mind. Quiet sleep comes more easily, but for some people, the experience can feel a little different. Occasionally, valerian can feel almost hyper, not dramatically so, but enough that instead of softening, your system feels a little more switched on. And this is where it’s really important not to make that mean that valerian’s wrong for you, because, zooming out for a moment, the research and traditional use are actually very consistent on this. Valerian’s a sedative, it’s a relaxant and it supports sleep. That’s well established. What we’re talking about here are the nuances and how that experience is felt from one person to another, not whether the herb works. Right? So rather than thinking, this won’t work for me, it’s more accurate to think that this might need to be adjusted for my system.

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And that’s the same for all herbs. Now, valerian’s chemically complex, right? And how it behaves in your body can vary for a number of reasons. So that variation can come from how and when the plant was harvested, which parts of the plant were used, how it was processed into the product that you’re taking, and also how you’re taking it, whether you’re taking it as a tea, a tincture or a capsule. What’s the dose? All of these factors influence the phytochemical profile. So essentially the concentration and balance of active compounds in what you’re taking, which means two people can both be taking something called valerian. And actually it can be quite different medicines. And there’s also some evidence that different species of valerian behave differently. So one study comparing species showed variations in sleep patterns, including differences in how often the participants briefly woke during the night and changes in their REM sleep.

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So from a clinical perspective, this makes sense because different species can have different phytochemical concentrations and therefore a slightly different effect on your body. You’ll sometimes hear of Valeriana edulis, commonly known as Mexican valerian, being used in practise. And this is particularly good for people who find Valeriana officinalis a little too stimulating. And this is Where I see my role as your herbalist, because it’s not just to give you a herb for a symptom. It it’s to help you connect with the plant that your body’s actually already searching for. Because herbal medicine isn’t about forcing a uniform response. It’s about working with your body’s individuality and finding the right match, the right preparation, the right dose, so that your system feels supported rather than pushed. And sleep’s not a luxury.

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It’s not something that your body can deprioritize without consequence. It’s one of the core biological processes that underpins your health, your cognitive function, your emotional regulation, and how your body sustains itself over time. And it also shows up in how your being is a leader and how you’re interacting with your colleagues and your team. So every night, your brain’s actively processing information, consolidating memory, regulating emotional responses, and clearing metabolic waste so that your thinking is sharper and more efficient the next day, while at the same time, your body’s repairing, restoring, and recalibrating your nervous system. So when sleep’s disrupted even slightly, it doesn’t just stay contained to the night, it carries forward into how you think, how you respond, and how you lead. You might notice it as decisions taking longer than you feel they should or they feel less clean. You might have a slightly shorter fuse, a sense that you’re having to work harder to access clarity that would normally be there. Research shows that poor or fragmented sleep is associated with reduced cognitive performance, impaired memory, and lower stress resilience.

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Which means that your ability to hold complexity and stay composed under pressure is directly affected. And that’s what shows up a lot of the time when we’re leading, right? And for many women, the response to that isn’t to rest more, it’s to compensate, to think more, to control more, to push a little harder. But what’s actually happening is that your nervous system hasn’t fully reset. It’s still carrying activation from the day before. And this is where valerian becomes more than just a sleep support. Because when your body can move into deeper, more restorative sleep, you’re not just waking up more refreshed, you’re waking up with a different internal baseline. Clearer thinking, more emotional steadiness, less internal noise. And from that place, leadership becomes sharper.

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Not because you’re doing more, but because your system is finally working with you instead of against you. I’ll usually use around a teaspoon of the dried root. I’ll steep it for about 10 minutes. Take it as a tea, and if I’m wanting a slightly stronger effect for sleep, I’ll either increase the amount that I’m adding to my tea or take it as a tincture. So I don’t tend to steep it for longer. Now, here’s the thing, right? Valerian does have a very distinctive smell and taste. It’s quite musky, earthy, often described as pungent, and for many people it really is an acquired taste. It’s a bitter herb, but there’s also a depth to it, and some people notice a slight softness or warmth or even a hint of sweetness underneath that initial bitterness, particularly when it’s taken as a warm tea.

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And in herbal medicine, we often talk about taste not as a single note, but, but as a layered experience. So a herb can be bitter on first contact and then reveal something softer or slightly sweet underneath, especially when it’s taken as a warm infusion like a tea. And that complexity is part of what you’re experiencing with valerian. So if the taste or the smell doesn’t appeal, capsules can be a really practical option because they bypass that sense sensory experience altogether while still giving you the benefit of the herb. So when it comes to working with valerian, I tend to keep things quite simple because this is a herb that doesn’t need to be over complicated to be effective. Personally, I only take valerian at night because I do feel its sedative effect quite clearly and quite quickly. And so for me, it’s something I use to support that transition into sleep rather than during the day. And I take it when I need it.

[00:13:09]:
I most often use it as a tea, like I said, particularly in the evening, because there’s something about that ritual of preparing it, letting it steep and then drinking it slowly. It already begins to signal to your body that you’re moving towards rest. Valerian is also something that I tend to take with me when I’m flying long haul because it’s easy, portable and it can really help to support sleep in a different environment. So I take it as a capsule and like I said, when you’re waking up from it, you don’t have that foggy hangover sleep tablet feeling, which I find quite helpful when you’re transitioning through an airport that you don’t know. And then there are periods where using it more consistently allows your body to really relearn that pathway into rest. So over time it becomes less about needing it every night and more about restoring that baseline line. Now, I have to say, valerian has quite the reputation in the animal world. I used to have a cat who would go completely bananas the moment I opened a bottle of Valerian tincture.

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He would appear instantly, eyes wide, completely fixated on it. So it’s a very distinctive plant, not just to us. So when you think about Valeria, yes, she is a powerful sleep herb. But more than that, she’s a plant that supports your body in remembering how to let go. Not by forcing it, not by overriding it, but by gently guiding your system back into a rhythm that for many people, has been lost through years of staying switched off. And when that rhythm starts to return, sleep changes. And so does everything that sits on top of it. Your clarity, your emotional steadiness, the way you move through your day and the way you lead.

[00:15:09]:
So if this conversation sparked your curiosity and you’re starting to see how one simple herb can have a very real impact on how your body functions, this is exactly what we explore inside my Herbs For Health series. Each month, we focus on one herb and we really get to understand it. How it works, who it’s for, how to use it in a way that feels simple and precise, so that you can support your sleep or manage your stress or support your mood and your immunity without feeling overwhelmed by everything that’s out there. Now it’s free. All you need to do is sign up. There’s an email that’ll come to you once a month, So if you’d like to know more about that, you can explore more about it at my website, tracytussey.co.nz herbsforhealth. I’ll also drop that link in the show notes, sending you lots of love. Bye for now.

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